When my son was about three years old my parents came for a
visit. One of my Dad’s favorite things to do with the grandkids was to take
them to the “dime store,” or dollar store as we call them today, and let them
pick out a toy. My daughter picked out something quickly but my son kept
looking and it became apparent that he had something specific in mind.
“Son, what are you
looking for,” I asked?
“A zooer,” he said.
“I want a zooer.”
“What’s a zooer,” I
was almost afraid to ask?
“You know, a
zooer,” he said more emphatically, and with a bit of frustration in his voice
added, “like yours. Zzzzzzzzzz, a zooer.”
Now I’m completely mystified. My Dad started to laugh and my
son started to get upset. Then a light came on. I tried to look at it from a
three year olds perspective and suddenly it occurred to me. He wanted a toy
weed trimmer. He did not know what is was called but he correctly identified
the sound that it made. To my surprise we found one but when it did not
actually trim weeds or make the right sound he tired of it quickly. What he got
was not exactly what he wanted.
As a child I rarely asked for anything. It just seemed liked
everything I needed was already provided. We were neither rich nor poor by most
people’s standards. But, we did not lack for necessities and my parents taught
me to be happy with what we had. My parents had both grown up poor and had
learned to make the most of what they had. That was a gift that has served me
well and I am grateful that they passed it on to their children.
When I moved away to college I discovered a whole new meaning
to asking and receiving. When I asked for money to spend on myself I received
slow responses and small amounts, if any. But, when I wrote home that I needed
a new pair of jeans because of the weather and a new pair of shoes to sing in
the chorale I got a quick reply and enough money to purchase the necessary
items. They responded to my need but not always to my want.
As a father I now know how difficult that was for my
parents. We cannot give children everything they want because we cannot afford
it and it would not be good for them. We sometimes wish we could give them
more. We do well to give them what they need.
When Jesus taught us to pray he included the phrase, “Give
us this day our daily bread.” (Matthew 6:11 esv) The “daily bread” that Jesus was
talking about literally means, “bread for tomorrow.” He taught us to ask for
our needs for just one more day. He wants to give us what we need and
everything we want that fits his plan for our lives. He wants us to ask so he
can give.
Bro. Robin
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